Katarzeee: People who have the urge to speak ugly about others have a problem only with themselves

Katarzeee, her name is Samanta, added a little addition to the family. In the interview, she revealed what was the most difficult for her at the beginning of motherhood, but also, for example, when she will return to work as a tattoo artist.  

1. Hello, to begin with such a classic question. How are you at the moment? How are you and your family doing?

Ahoo! Honestly, I'm having a great time. At the moment we are very happy with our little Astrid and we are enjoying every little thing and every single day to the fullest.

2. How has your life changed with the arrival of the baby?

Fuh, so he changed in several things, but I wouldn't say that he changed drastically. I'm still me, doing the things I did before, I just have a little sidekick, hehe. I feel that my life is more fulfilled now. I can no longer imagine life without her - what have I been doing for the Lord all day? 

3. How do you rate being a mother at a young age? 

For me, being a young mother is a huge plus. Also with regard to regeneration after childbirth and waking up at night. I still have energy and I have no problem getting up at night. And also, in my opinion, a young parent adapts to "change" faster. I honestly cannot imagine having a child at, say, thirty.

4. Is it difficult to combine creating content on social networks with taking care of a baby? What are your top tips for maintaining a work-life balance? 

Well, sometimes it can take a while. Creating content while a small person is shouting at you and asking for attention (laughs). Fortunately, I have a husband and family who help me in this as well. If I need to shoot undisturbed, I have that opportunity thanks to them. Well, I maintain the balance by working during the week, plus I take care of the little one, and I try to have a complete day off from work on the weekend. And on weekends, when the husband doesn't get up for work, he gets up with the little one.

5. On her Instagram and YouTube, she publicly talked about the fact that she was going through a mentally difficult period after giving birth. Can you describe to us what was the most difficult for you and what helped you the most? 

The absolute hardest thing was experiencing the feeling that you don't want your child. During the worst days with postpartum depression, I started rejecting the little one, she really bothered me... In retrospect, that was the worst part of it all. Well, the family that helped me the most in getting out of these conditions was the family that took care of Astridka during the worst period, for which I am incredibly grateful.

6. In some of your stories on Instagram, you responded to very unpleasant messages. What is your experience with this? Did you feel more support or criticism from people? 

Over time, a person gets used to that hate and can detach himself from it. That is also my case. I always tell myself that the person is talking about himself. Because people who need to talk badly about others have a problem only with themselves. I have an awful lot of people on my profile who support me and write me beautiful messages, and I do it for them. Compared to them, the haters are just a handful of unfortunate people.

7. How do you deal with public pressure and different expectations regarding motherhood?

The only pressure I take seriously is the pressure I put on myself to be the best possible mother. If the public has expectations, let them apply them to themselves or their own children. I don't like it when one mother disrespects another mother in the way she raises or what her views on parenting and motherhood are.

8. Let's move on to another topic. What is it like to sit in the saddle again?

 Oh, it's beautiful. Unfortunately, after some time I found out that riding is causing me health problems, so at the moment I am forced to stop riding again, which makes me incredibly angry and I am very sad because it is my only passion. But I believe that when I get my health sorted out, because the pre-sale is in the first place, I will return to the saddle at least recreationally.

9. Do you also plan to teach your daughter to ride? 

I would be very happy if I could create a path for her and a relationship with this beautiful sport. However, as long as she enjoys it, I don't want to fulfill my dreams through her, haha. I will of course support her in anything.

10. What are your plans for the future in terms of social media content and your development as a creator? 

I've been trying to build my YouTube for a while now, although it's quite difficult in today's TikTok era. 

11. What are your plans for a tattoo? Do you already know when you will return to tattooing?

At the moment, Astridka has started a period when she only wants mom, mom, and mom, and with that, the idea of returning to tattooing has been delayed by 2 kilometers. But after this phase, I would like to start my own studio. I'm still looking around for spaces and options, but I know that when it comes down to it, it's going to be big!

12. Do you also get interesting feedback from followers that made you feel that your content has a positive impact? 

Yes, yes! That is the biggest reward for me, when someone writes to me that I helped them. I always try to write back if my followers write me something in which I can at least help them a little. For example, babies who have also had a spontaneous abortion often write to me. It's an incredible feeling when, after six months, they write to you that they are expecting a rainbow baby and that you helped them in their worst situation.

13. Which collaboration do you currently enjoy the most and why?

At the moment I'm having a great time collaborating with things for Astrid. This is what I appreciate most about my job, that thanks to what I do, I can give Astrid so much.

14. How would you like to encourage and motivate young creators and mothers who are trying to find a balance between work, hobbies and family care?

Probably just because everything is possible when you want it. Moreover, we women are superheroes and manage the impossible every day. And also let them not forget that their child also has a father and care for the little person should be 50 to 50! 

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